Exciting News: Menopause Wingman
As of May 2025, Michelle is half-way through writing a practical, emotionally intelligent guide for husbands/partners navigating the menopause journey together called Menopause Wingman.
Michelle’s Mission
Michelle’s Mission for her book ‘Menopause Wingman‘ is to share together with men’s voices – a practical resource for navigating this challenging transition. This all came about as a result of her own challenging journey through the menopause transition – with her (now) husband.
Can You Help?
Men, your voice matters! You’ve seen her struggle first hand. Now it’s your turn to be heard.
- 6 simple questions
- 2 minutes of your time
- One powerful impact
Your unique perspective could change how we support women in menopause.
Complete the short questionnaire to add your experience here. There are 6 quick questions that will help to build a resource that actually works for men like you. Your honest answers will make a difference.
Please share this link with other men who might have insights to offer.
For updates on the project, bookmark our website at menopausewingman.com.
Thank you for helping us change how men approach menopause — not as spectators, but as wingmen. Your experience matters. Be included!


Special Place – Create a special place in your home where you can just be. Designate a comfy chair or a special cushion that you can sit on and breathe deeply. Let it be your “Relaxation Chair/Zen Cushion”. The rule is, when you are there, no-one is to disturb you. Like a naughty step for kids, when you go to the Zen Cushion, you are taking time out to be with yourself, to breathe and stop for a while. You can deal with requests later (but only after you have had some time for yourself). Your kids/partner can also use the chair/cushion too, when they need time to refocus or relax.
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My mind wouldn’t stop. Instead of slowing down it became incredibly active, going 90-to-the-dozen! I’d have a shopping list of things come up in my mind, all sorts of random ridiculous thoughts. I would get so frustrated. The exact opposite of what I was attempting to achieve (sigh).
Better memory, and an enhanced ability to process information and solve problems
Our lives are filled with many different stresses, challenges and distractions. So easily we can get side-tracked with daily work and family routines/commitments that we forget to (or more importantly) don’t schedule time off. The more stressed we become, the more difficult it is to pull away. The harder we work, the more we start to come out of balance not only mentally, but physically, emotionally and spiritually. As our “to do list” increases, the more we get lost. It can take a while to find ourselves again.
Attending a weekend retreat gives us a chance to detach and unplug as we get away from work, TV, wifi, tablet and cell phone. Any amount of time we spend in nature will bring a sense of inner peace and refreshment to our mind and soul. When we have some fresh air, exercise and take in wonderful views our bodies feel renewed too.
gain more awareness, understanding

we argue, we rarely take the time to discover what is on the other persons’ map. We generally spend all our effort and energy defending our map, trying our best to convince the other person that our map is ‘right’. We never take a step back to look at their map. If we did, we’d discover that – surprisingly – we both want the same thing.
So in any disagreement it’s helpful to stay curious to what is on the other persons’ map. We then have a few opportunities:

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When we don’t love ourselves then everyone suffers. No-one gets the best from us, not even ourselves.
Feeling insecure, needing reassurance, jealousy
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Neurolinguistic Programming NLP
Hypnosis has long been associated with the strange and mysterious, with sideshows or faith healers. But the truth is that hypnosis isn’t the least bit mysterious or controlling. It is in fact a state of intense relaxation and concentration, where the mind becomes remote and detached from everyday cares. In this relaxed state, positive suggestions for change and growth can be given to the subconscious and these become part of the way we then behave and live our life.
What can Hypnosis do for me?